Helping Married Couples Rebuild or Find Clarity
You don’t have to feel like roommates forever. Whether you long to reconnect or you’re unsure if your marriage can survive, I offer a safe space to slow down, talk honestly, and discover the next step forward.
When Your Marriage Feels Stuck
After years together, many couples reach a place they never expected:
You love each other, but feel more like roommates than partners.
Conversations are surface-level, or you avoid talking about the hard things.
The spark you once had feels out of reach.
You sometimes wonder if your marriage can even be saved.
If this feels familiar, please know you’re not alone—and it doesn’t have to stay this way.
A Gentle Approach to Healing
I specialize in supporting married couples who have been together 5, 10, or more years and feel distant, stuck, or uncertain. My role is to create a calm, non-judgmental space where both partners feel safe to open up.
Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples recognize and step out of negative cycles, so they can experience moments of connection and closeness again. Over time, partners begin to share more vulnerably, repair old hurts, and rediscover what first brought them together.
For Couples at a Crossroads
Sometimes, one partner isn’t sure they want to continue the marriage while the other wants to work on it. This is what we call a “mixed-agenda” couple—and traditional therapy often isn’t the best fit in that moment.
For these couples, I offer Discernment Counseling. This is a short-term, structured process designed to help you gain clarity about the future of your marriage. It’s not about making quick decisions, but about slowing down, understanding your options, and moving forward with confidence—whether that means working on the relationship or choosing a different path.
A Safe Place to Find Your Way Back to Each Other
Whether you and your partner are ready to rebuild your marriage, or you’re simply trying to decide if that’s possible, I walk alongside you with care, compassion, and guidance.
My clients often tell me they feel comfortable with me right away. That sense of comfort is important—because when you feel safe, it’s easier to take the risks that lead to healing and deeper connection.
You’re marriage matters. If you’re feeling distant, stuck, or unsure about the future, I would be honored to help you find clarity and hope.